Back in 2002, when gay online websites were pretty new, I was a 37-year-old gay male who also had a very strong Christian faith.I had joined a popular gay dating website at the time where I was soon contacted by a very handsome 23-year-old Malaysian lad.Controlling our love life with a flick of the finger on our smartphone with the same ease we check messages from work or order products from online stores.
Every day, without fail, I would receive some words from him – about lunches, planned weekend dates, words of encouragement when things are bad. I can totally be myself and knowing that my lows, warts and skeletons will never be used to attack me as a woman and as a person. Suffice to say that they ended up eating alone as I left right after that. The question is that – why do generally Malay men are acting so macho up to the point that they do not realize that their wives, girlfriends or partners are suffering in silent? Okay…today I am going to write about five things Malay men should do to keep their women and keep them happy too. I have met some who are really a gem – so loving and everything else in between.
Dating apps on the other hand, offer the additional flexibility and freedom of mobile features, easily portable to follow you everywhere and additional features such as location-based GPS to find suitable mates nearby, without having to scroll through pages of profiles and lengthy messages of traditional dating sites A simple finger touch on your smartphone screen allows you to signal your interest, chat, disclose your location and decide if you want to take the next step, to go on a date - all done without the fear and awkwardness of face to face interaction that one experiences in a club or social gathering.
In the last 5 years, dating apps have really taken off in a big way in western cultures, in particular US and Europe where apps like Tinder and Grindr have really gained a foothold in the online dating game.
When kids first start “dating” where is a safe place to go – the mall? A safe place to date is anywhere that is public but also assures time to talk and be listened to.
Teens are more successful with relationships when they are doing something together.